http://usayisay.com/41 Dating and Relationship Advice from both Guys and Girls Fri, 01 Jul 2011 15:27:48 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.1 hourly 1 http://usayisay.com/41/comment-page-1#comment-47 Ohm Mega One Tue, 14 Jul 2009 01:56:30 +0000 http://usayisay.com/?p=41#comment-47 There are always going to be issues between the old friends and the newbie girl/guy. I don't think that this is a completely either/or issue, as I think it comes down to what kind of "friends" do you really have and what kind of "significant other" are you prone to connect with? If you have "friends" that really aren't as great as you would really want your associates to be, then their opinions do not have nearly any weight. Those friends that really just want the best for you will state their opinions, and support you either way, even if they don't want to interact with the offending other. However, I gotta say that if the other starts acting different around other people, then you have to ask who is this person really? Am I the one seeing the act? If all signs point to "nooooo!", and you know that your opinion is compromised by cupid eyes, you might want to take a second to breathe, relax, and, in the words of D.Savage, DTMFA. There are always going to be issues between the old friends and the newbie girl/guy. I don’t think that this is a completely either/or issue, as I think it comes down to what kind of “friends” do you really have and what kind of “significant other” are you prone to connect with?
If you have “friends” that really aren’t as great as you would really want your associates to be, then their opinions do not have nearly any weight. Those friends that really just want the best for you will state their opinions, and support you either way, even if they don’t want to interact with the offending other.
However, I gotta say that if the other starts acting different around other people, then you have to ask who is this person really? Am I the one seeing the act?
If all signs point to “nooooo!”, and you know that your opinion is compromised by cupid eyes, you might want to take a second to breathe, relax, and, in the words of D.Savage, DTMFA.

]]> http://usayisay.com/41/comment-page-1#comment-46 Ashley Winger Mon, 13 Jul 2009 05:23:31 +0000 http://usayisay.com/?p=41#comment-46 I think there are two good arguements here, but you shouldn't dump a significant other for the sole reason that your friends don't like her/him. Chances are there will be other problems with your new love if none of your friends care for him/her though. What's the worse thing that can happen by staying with this new person? Maybe, you spend a couple of extra months with them before you figure it out yourself. But maybe your new love becomes more comfortable and grows on your friends over time. The bottom line is, if you're a grown person you should make the decision for yourself. I think there are two good arguements here, but you shouldn’t dump a significant other for the sole reason that your friends don’t like her/him. Chances are there will be other problems with your new love if none of your friends care for him/her though. What’s the worse thing that can happen by staying with this new person? Maybe, you spend a couple of extra months with them before you figure it out yourself. But maybe your new love becomes more comfortable and grows on your friends over time. The bottom line is, if you’re a grown person you should make the decision for yourself.

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