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		<title>DEBATE: Will Elin Nordegren Divorce Tiger Woods Because of His Cheating?</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 09 Dec 2009 21:01:39 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Adam and Sital</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[In light of the degree of the transgressions committed by Tiger, Sital and Adam debate the following question: Will Elin Nordegren divorce Tiger Woods because of his cheating? Read both Adam and Sital's takes, then log your vote.]]></description>
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<p>By now unless you are blind, deaf and have no friends, you have heard that Tiger Woods, the world&#8217;s #1 golfer and arguably the best golfer of all time was recently caught cheating on his wife Elin Nordegren.  There doesn&#8217;t seem to much dispute about whether or not he committed adultery, although how much adultery remains in question as <a href="http://www.google.com/url?sa=t&amp;source=web&amp;ct=res&amp;cd=2&amp;ved=0CA0QFjAB&amp;url=http%3A%2F%2Fentertainment.blogs.foxnews.com%2F2009%2F12%2F08%2Fporn-star-joslyn-james-brings-the-number-of-women-linked-to-tiger-woods-to-11%2F&amp;ei=eD8fS4foDJPQtgOG0MD1CQ&amp;usg=AFQjCNGN-fVcAcVAPN-TedUYHP53rxMNIQ&amp;sig2=41dMN1oMNSBad8QqUWEglg" target="_blank" onclick="pageTracker._trackPageview('/outgoing/www.google.com/url?sa=t_amp_source=web_amp_ct=res_amp_cd=2_amp_ved=0CA0QFjAB_amp_url=http_3A_2F_2Fentertainment.blogs.foxnews.com_2F2009_2F12_2F08_2Fporn-star-joslyn-james-brings-the-number-of-women-linked-to-tiger-woods-to-11_2F_amp_ei=eD8fS4foDJPQtgOG0MD1CQ_amp_usg=AFQjCNGN-fVcAcVAPN-TedUYHP53rxMNIQ_amp_sig2=41dMN1oMNSBad8QqUWEglg&amp;referer=');">woman after woman</a> comes out of the woodwork to add to Tiger&#8217;s list of &#8220;<a href="http://web.tigerwoods.com/news/article/200912027740572/news/" target="_blank" onclick="pageTracker._trackPageview('/outgoing/web.tigerwoods.com/news/article/200912027740572/news/?referer=');">transgressions</a>&#8220;.</p>
<p>You know we here at U Say, I Say would have something to say about this, especially considering how much attention our <a href="http://usayisay.com/debate-did-steve-mcnair-deserve-to-be-shot" target="_blank">Steve McNair debate</a> generated.</p>
<p>So in light of the degree of the transgressions committed by Tiger, Sital and Adam debate the following question:</p>
<p><strong><span style="font-size: large;">Will Elin Nordegren divorce Tiger Woods because of his cheating?</span></strong></p>
<p><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-size: small;">So read both Adam and Sital&#8217;s takes below, then log your vote.  We&#8217;ll send out the results in about two weeks time.</span><br />
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		<title>Will Lamar Odom and Khloe Kardashian Last at least Two Years?</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 27 Oct 2009 19:14:07 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Adam R-Z</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Lamar Odom and Khloe Kardashian have been dating for a little less than two months.  Surprising both family and friends, they have decided to wed despite their short time together.  This has led many to wonder their true intentions and sets the scene for another U Say, I Say debate.  The question:  Will Lamar Odom and Khloe Kardashians marriage last at least two years?]]></description>
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<p>Lamar Odom and Khloe Kardashian have been dating for a little less than two months.  Surprising both family and friends, they have decided to wed despite their short time together.  This has led many to wonder their true intentions and sets the scene for another U Say, I Say debate.</p>
<p>The question:  <strong>Will Lamar Odom and Khloe Kardashians marriage last at least two years?</strong></p>
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		<title>DEBATE:  Go to a Fantasy Football Draft or to a Friends Wedding?</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 22 Sep 2009 17:00:37 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Adam and Sital</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Tony and Jessica's friend is getting married on the same day of Tony's annual fantasy football draft with his college buddies.  What should he do?  Go to the wedding and deal with the humilation of a poor season or leave his long term girlfriend with no date and a bad excuse why he can't be there?  Sital and Adam debate.  Which side will you choose?]]></description>
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<p>Tony and Jessica have been dating for 2 years and are in a happy long-term relationship.  Jessica&#8217;s friend, who Tony is also friends with is getting married in the fall.  Unfortunately the wedding is planned on the Saturday of Tony&#8217;s annual, in-person fantasy football draft with his buddies from college.</p>
<p>Tony knows he should go to the wedding; he and Jessica have been together for a while and there will be a lot of people there that know them.  On the other hand, he has been playing in this football league for years, even before he was with Jessica, and would hate to miss out on the annual ritual (not to mention end up with a bad team!).</p>
<p><strong>Should Tony participate in his draft or go to the wedding with Jessica?</strong></p>
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		<title>DEBATE: When You&#8217;re Breaking Up With Someone Should You Tell Them You Cheated?</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 18 Aug 2009 20:00:42 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Adam R-Z</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Liz cheated on Steve but he doesn't know... yet.  They are about to break up because Liz has been distant ever since she cheated.  Should she tell him or just keep it to herself?  Join the debate!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-683" style="margin: 5px;" title="breaking-up-cheater" src="http://usayisay.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/08/breaking-up-cheater-300x299.jpg" alt="Liz cheated.  Should she tell Steve?" width="300" height="299" />Steve and Liz dated for almost a year before their relationship started to hit the skids.  Over the past month, Liz has become increasingly distant and their arguments went from minor tiffs to major yelling matches.</p>
<p>Liz believes that its time for them to break up and go their separate ways.  However, she is debating if she should bring up the fact that she cheated on Steve about a month ago.  She thinks it could help explain why they have been fighting so much, but is unsure if it&#8217;s too much information at this point.</p>
<p><strong>Should Liz tell Steve that she cheated or just keep it to her self?</strong></p>
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		<title>DEBATE: Did Steve McNair Deserve to be Shot?</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 12 Jul 2009 20:28:02 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Adam and Sital</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Steve McNair, a 36 year old former Pro-Bowl quarterback for the Tennessee Titans and Baltimore Ravens was having an affair with Sahel Kazemi, a 20 year old bartender at Dave &#38; Buster&#8217;s. 
The two were having an affair for approximately 5 months and appeared to getting serious.  According to reports, Steve promised to leave his [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.zazzle.com/dont_make_me_go_all_crazy_white_girl_on_you_tshirt-235225064410443246" target="_blank" onclick="pageTracker._trackPageview('/outgoing/www.zazzle.com/dont_make_me_go_all_crazy_white_girl_on_you_tshirt-235225064410443246?referer=');"><img class="alignright size-medium wp-image-495" title="dont_make_me_go_all_crazy_white_girl_on_you_tshirt-p235225064410443246qzgo_400" src="http://usayisay.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/07/dont_make_me_go_all_crazy_white_girl_on_you_tshirt-p235225064410443246qzgo_400-300x300.jpg" alt="Dont make me go all crazy white girl on you tshirt" width="300" height="300" /></a>Steve McNair, a 36 year old former Pro-Bowl quarterback for the Tennessee Titans and Baltimore Ravens was having an affair with <span class="imageCaption leftFloat">Sahel Kazemi, a 20 year old bartender at Dave &amp; Buster&#8217;s. </span></p>
<p><span class="imageCaption leftFloat">The two were having an affair for approximately 5 months and appeared to getting serious.  According to reports, Steve promised to leave his wife and Sahel posted her furniture for sale on Craigslist in the hopes of moving in together.</span></p>
<p><span class="imageCaption leftFloat">Their relationship turned tragic when both Steve and Sahel were found shot dead on the couch of Steve&#8217;s condo.  All evidence points to Sahel having shot Steve while he slept and then shot herself, in the hopes of falling into his lap. </span></p>
<p><span class="imageCaption leftFloat"> Investigators speculate that Steve was not only rethinking the decision to leave his wife but that he also had a second mistress in addition to Sahel.  More details are available <a href="http://www.ajc.com/sports/content/sports/stories/2009/07/04/mcnair_shot_death.html?cxntlid=homepage_tab_newstab" target="_blank" onclick="pageTracker._trackPageview('/outgoing/www.ajc.com/sports/content/sports/stories/2009/07/04/mcnair_shot_death.html?cxntlid=homepage_tab_newstab&amp;referer=');">here</a>.</span></p>
<p><span class="imageCaption leftFloat"><strong>Question for debate: Did Steve deserve to be shot under these circumstances?<span id="more-490"></span></strong><br />
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		<title>DEBATE: Should Taking Someone&#8217;s Last Name Be a Deal Breaker?</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 06 Jul 2009 04:00:35 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Adam and Sital</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Dan, a Boston-born patent attorney in his late 20&#8217;s and Susan, a fashion designer in her mid-30&#8217;s who owns her own company, have decided to get married after a passionate 6 months of dating. When they subject of Susan taking Dan&#8217;s last name came up, Dan insisted on it.  Susan refused, but Dan has stated [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><span style="font-family: Tahoma;"><img class="alignright size-medium wp-image-415" style="margin: 5px;" title="last-name-tag" src="http://usayisay.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/07/last-name-tag-300x197.gif" alt="last-name-tag" width="240" height="158" />Dan, a Boston-born patent attorney in his late 20&#8217;s and Susan, a fashion designer in her mid-30&#8217;s who owns her own company, have decided to get married after a passionate 6 months of dating. When they subject of Susan taking Dan&#8217;s last name came up, Dan insisted on it.  <span id="more-261"></span>Susan refused, but Dan has stated that it is something really important to him and it has become a deal breaker in the relationship. </span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: Tahoma;">Should Susan take his last name to save the relationship?</span></p>
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		<title>DEBATE: Should You Dump Who You&#8217;re Dating If Your Friends Don&#8217;t Like Him/Her?</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 09 Jun 2009 00:36:32 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Adam and Sital</dc:creator>
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Nicole, a nurse from the midwest in her early-20&#8217;s, has been dating Tom, a would be-actor also in his early 20&#8217;s, for about 2 months.  They have hung out with Nicole&#8217;s long-time friends multiple times and, despite efforts made to get along, Tom has not gelled well with Nicole&#8217;s friends.  When just the [...]]]></description>
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<p>Nicole, a nurse from the midwest in her early-20&#8217;s, has been dating Tom, a would be-actor also in his early 20&#8217;s, for about 2 months.  They have hung out with Nicole&#8217;s long-time friends multiple times and, despite efforts made to get along, Tom has not gelled well with Nicole&#8217;s friends.  <span id="more-41"></span>When just the two of them are together, they have a great time, but when Nicole&#8217;s friends are involved, Tom tends to act immaturely, making it difficult for them to spend time in Nicole&#8217;s social circle.</p>
<p>Should Nicole continue to date Tom or should she dump him?</p>
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