If You Don’t Stop Telling Your Girlfriend These 5 Things, You’ll Hate Yourself Later
August 6, 2009 by Rachel W.
Filed under Girls, Explained
Have you heard this one? “Honesty is the best policy.” Ah, no, it’s not. At least not always, and certainly not when it comes to people that you really care about. One of the justifiable reasons for not telling the whole truth, is to protect someone’s feelings, and this should apply to your girlfriend most of all! So don’t leap to the conclusion that just because you’re in a relationship the rule about not oversharing doesn’t apply. Read more
How to Deal with the Fact that the Girl You’re Dating has a Moustache
July 31, 2009 by Rachel W.
Filed under Girls, Explained
So you’re dating a girl. Good for you tiger! But there’s a little issue, isn’t there. Let me guess, her parents are Italian… maybe Greek? That combination of dark hair and a light complexion is what does it. Often it’s invisible, but every once in a while her head turns juuust so; her face catches the light… and BAM! You’re dating Tom Selleck. Read more
Why It’s Ok to Lie to the Person You’re Dating
July 14, 2009 by Rachel W.
Filed under Girls, Explained
STOP! WAIT! I know what you’re expecting here: one of those dull treatises on the best response to the immortal question “does my ass look big in this?”
Well don’t worry, because this article is NOT going to go there. That would be tired, lame and clichéd. No, this is going to an exciting treatise on the best response to the immortal question “so what do you think of my friends?” Read more
What Everybody Ought to Know About The Role of Myspace and Facebook Early in a Relationship
July 5, 2009 by Rachel W.
Filed under Girls, Explained
Where would we be without our social networking sites? It started out as a great way to reconnect with high school and college classmates, old friends from the neighborhood you grew up in, and maybe (though you’d never admit it) as a way to spy on your exes. Read more
The Secret to Merging Households: What To Keep? What To Toss?
July 5, 2009 by Rachel W.
Filed under Girls, Explained

You’ve taken the big step and agreed to live with your girl – congrats tiger! I’m a big fan of trying it before you buy it, so cohabitation will give you the chance to see if you can tolerate this person for the long haul. (But hey, it also gives them the chance to see if they can tolerate YOU – so behave yourself!) Of course, you probably have doubles of some things. What are things you should keep and what should you toss? Read more
Guys: Reasons You Should Not Be Friends With Your Ex – In Haiku
July 5, 2009 by Rachel W.
Filed under Girls, Explained
We here at U Say, I Say are a multi-dimensional bunch. Not only do we bring you advice from one sex to the other, not only do we give you cool unique ways to improve your current dating experiences, but every now and then we break from the norm and offer up some poetry. Read more
How To Handle A Hairy Man
July 5, 2009 by Rachel W.
Filed under Featured, Girls, Explained
This guy is so perfect. He’s smart, he’s sweet, he has a career, he has his head firmly planted on his hairy shoulders. Ew. Okay, there’s the problem. He’s your perfect man, but he’s… shall we say – furry? Read more
Help! Is My Girlfriend Going to Look Like Her Mother??
July 3, 2009 by Rachel W.
Filed under Girls, Explained

One of the tried and true bits of advice that floats around the dating scene is that if you want to know what your beloved will look like in 20-30 years, take a look at their parents. You’ll get a good idea of how the people in that family age and vaguely what to expect when you marry them. Read more





