Comments on: DEBATE: When You’re Breaking Up With Someone Should You Tell Them You Cheated? http://usayisay.com/debate-when-youre-breaking-up-with-someone-should-you-tell-them-you-cheated Dating and Relationship Advice from both Guys and Girls Fri, 01 Jul 2011 15:27:48 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.1 hourly 1 By: Annie http://usayisay.com/debate-when-youre-breaking-up-with-someone-should-you-tell-them-you-cheated/comment-page-1#comment-159 Annie Fri, 01 Jul 2011 15:27:48 +0000 http://usayisay.com/?p=682#comment-159 No, don't tell him. There was something wrong in the relationship for you to think cheating was an option. Figure out what was wrong and talk to him about it. Don't add salt to the wound by revealing you cheated on him. The act of being with someone else is a coward's excuse for not confronting the real issues within the relationship. Stop acting immature and selfish. You chose to be in a relationship with him, now choose to set him free so he can find someone who will love him. No, don’t tell him. There was something wrong in the relationship for you to think cheating was an option. Figure out what was wrong and talk to him about it. Don’t add salt to the wound by revealing you cheated on him. The act of being with someone else is a coward’s excuse for not confronting the real issues within the relationship. Stop acting immature and selfish. You chose to be in a relationship with him, now choose to set him free so he can find someone who will love him.

]]> By: Mikko Kemppe - Relationship Coach http://usayisay.com/debate-when-youre-breaking-up-with-someone-should-you-tell-them-you-cheated/comment-page-1#comment-68 Mikko Kemppe - Relationship Coach Sat, 29 Aug 2009 02:26:29 +0000 http://usayisay.com/?p=682#comment-68 I like this debate format for relationship and dating posts. Very interesting! And to answer to the debate, I gave my vote to Adam's approach. I think honesty is the best policy, although it is all in the way you communicate it. Again, enjoyed reading the post! I like this debate format for relationship and dating posts. Very interesting!

And to answer to the debate, I gave my vote to Adam’s approach. I think honesty is the best policy, although it is all in the way you communicate it.

Again, enjoyed reading the post!

]]> By: Ashley http://usayisay.com/debate-when-youre-breaking-up-with-someone-should-you-tell-them-you-cheated/comment-page-1#comment-67 Ashley Mon, 24 Aug 2009 22:13:10 +0000 http://usayisay.com/?p=682#comment-67 Tough call on this one. I think it really depends on the situation and how much good or harm you would do by confessing your infidelity. I can definitely see both sides, depending on the situation. I would be interested to hear opinions on whether or not readers think you should confess cheating when breaking up, if it happened earlier on in the relationship and wasn't the cause or related to the break-up. I for one think I would prefer not to know, unless it was a situation where mutual friends already knew. Some tough moral issues… Tough call on this one. I think it really depends on the situation and how much good or harm you would do by confessing your infidelity. I can definitely see both sides, depending on the situation. I would be interested to hear opinions on whether or not readers think you should confess cheating when breaking up, if it happened earlier on in the relationship and wasn’t the cause or related to the break-up. I for one think I would prefer not to know, unless it was a situation where mutual friends already knew. Some tough moral issues…

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