Comments on: Little Known Reasons Why He Won’t Marry You

By: AT

AT — Tue, 22 Sep 2009 23:54:34 +0000

Hey Adam,

I actually agree with you too. If a woman seriously dates 5 guys in a row and none of them would marry her (while she wants to marry them), then maybe there is a problem with her and she should give it some thought. But the bottom line is, she should move on anyway (and analyze post-mortem rather than spend more time in the relationship. If it’s not working, it wasn’t meant to be… and it won’t magically start working tomorrow.

By: Misty

Misty — Tue, 22 Sep 2009 16:54:01 +0000

Oh, are we stealing my line (that I stole from Chris Rock)?

By: Adam R-Z

Adam R-Z — Tue, 22 Sep 2009 05:30:15 +0000

Hey AT! Thanks for joining the discussion.

Sorry the article wasn’t too helpful. We cut Tobias’ ration of cigarettes & South Park episodes this week as punishment.

I do have to disagree with you a bit on point though: If someone was not getting the results they wanted in repeat situations, why should that person not analyze why things aren’t working for them? I think someone SHOULD look at why their approach is not working and figure out how to fix it!

Of course maybe that’s just the “guy” in me always trying to fix things

By: Adam R-Z

Adam R-Z — Tue, 22 Sep 2009 05:19:26 +0000

I think Chris Rock summed this up best:
“Every man has to settle down eventually. You know why you gotta settle down eventually? Because you don’t want to be the old guy in the club. You know what I’m talking about. Every club you go into, there’s always some old guy. He ain’t really old, just a little too old to be in the club.”

By: Sital Amin

Sital Amin — Mon, 21 Sep 2009 04:36:02 +0000

I agree 100% with AT. I know too many women who stay in relationships where they give, give, give and get nothing back, but they would rather stay in a dead-end relationship then be alone. Why does being alone scare so many women? I’d rather be alone then come home to a guy day-after-day that doesn’t want to be with me. That’s just depressing.

By: AT

AT — Fri, 18 Sep 2009 16:15:41 +0000

I don’t think the article is all that insightful or helpful… but agree with all of Sital’s point. I feel like a cynic! But that’s what I think it all comes down to for guys… and if they won’t marry you, don’t analyze why – just move on! Lesson learned based on personal experience.

By: Ashley Winger

Ashley Winger — Fri, 18 Sep 2009 00:08:32 +0000

Too funny!

By: Anna Jackson

Anna Jackson — Thu, 17 Sep 2009 15:44:57 +0000

Because women mature more quickly than men?
If it is a gender issue, this is why.

By: Anna Jackson

Anna Jackson — Thu, 17 Sep 2009 15:34:51 +0000

I have to completely agree with all of these.

By: Anna Jackson

Anna Jackson — Thu, 17 Sep 2009 15:30:47 +0000

It’s all so clear now! I only date guys who have no relationship maturity but are really attractive. Then…why are they all 30? Can you guys start wearing t-shirts with your own personal graph like this one?