PODCAST: Should You Tell the Woman You’re Dating You Have a Small Penis?
For this U Say, I Say podcast we posed a fictional problem to our panelists and asked them to weigh in and debate the how the problem should be resolved. What you’ll hear is how different people with different backgrounds from all over the country would recommend dealing with a given situation.
Our hope is that if YOU are faced with a similar experience, by listening to our guests, you gain a better idea of what may be going on the head of the person you’re dating and be better equipped to address the issue.
Here was the situation for this podcast:
Don is an attractive and fit 27 year old salesman that recently began dating Alora, an exotic-looking 30 year beautician. Don and Alora have been hitting it off well and Don is confident that they are going to sleep together on their next date. While Don is looking forward to sleeping with Alora, he is also concerned because he is not particularly well-endowed. In fact, back in college Don had unflattering comments made about his manhood from random girls he hooked up with and would like to avoid that humiliation in the future. This time around he is considering letting Alora know before they get busy that he isn’t particularly large and in charge.
Should Don warn Alora his battleship is more like a tugboat, or simply hope she doesn’t notice or doesn’t care?
Participants for this podcast were:
- Maxwell, a 28 year old software designer from Miami
- Ringo, a 26 year old freelance graphics designer from San Diego
- Penelope, a 30 year old attorney from Kansas
- Scott, a 25 year old salesman from Chicago
- Rajan, a 25 years old unemployed guy from Southern California
Click to Play: Click to Play: Don & Alora: Should You Tell the Woman You’re Dating You Have a Small Penis?
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As a previous podcast contributor, I am very sad I missed the opportunity to put my 2 cents in on this one. Guys – DO NOT TELL HER. Its weird, and kind of a turn off. She’s gonna find out anyway, so there’s no need to set the bar so low. I assume that’s what you are trying to get out in front of – the bar being set too high – but it can have the opposite effect. Its like saying to someone right before, “Just so you know, this is going to be really dissapointing for you.” Also, maybe you think its small, but maybe we wouldn’t have noticed. Now you’ve put it in our head that you are exceptionally tiny, to the point where you found it necessary to issue a verbal disclaimer. I will admit, when the time comes when we do find out anyway, there’s about 2 seconds of “aw shucks.” But if you start doin a good job, we don’t care anymore. Warning us beforehand just puts a huge damper on the situation. Yeah, you avoided those 2 seconds of dissapointment, but you added way more seconds of me feeling kinda skeeved out.
I love how you think, Misty.
Can i call you? please????? (joke)