Comments on: PODCAST: Should You Tell the Woman You’re Dating You Have a Small Penis? http://usayisay.com/podcast-should-you-tell-the-woman-youre-dating-you-have-a-small-penis Dating and Relationship Advice from both Guys and Girls Fri, 01 Jul 2011 15:27:48 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.1 hourly 1 By: steve http://usayisay.com/podcast-should-you-tell-the-woman-youre-dating-you-have-a-small-penis/comment-page-1#comment-157 steve Tue, 24 May 2011 14:19:33 +0000 http://usayisay.com/?p=578#comment-157 I love how you think, Misty. Can i call you? please????? (joke) I love how you think, Misty.

Can i call you? please????? (joke)

]]> By: Misty http://usayisay.com/podcast-should-you-tell-the-woman-youre-dating-you-have-a-small-penis/comment-page-1#comment-65 Misty Thu, 20 Aug 2009 00:30:29 +0000 http://usayisay.com/?p=578#comment-65 As a previous podcast contributor, I am very sad I missed the opportunity to put my 2 cents in on this one. Guys - DO NOT TELL HER. Its weird, and kind of a turn off. She's gonna find out anyway, so there's no need to set the bar so low. I assume that's what you are trying to get out in front of - the bar being set too high - but it can have the opposite effect. Its like saying to someone right before, "Just so you know, this is going to be really dissapointing for you." Also, maybe you think its small, but maybe we wouldn't have noticed. Now you've put it in our head that you are exceptionally tiny, to the point where you found it necessary to issue a verbal disclaimer. I will admit, when the time comes when we do find out anyway, there's about 2 seconds of "aw shucks." But if you start doin a good job, we don't care anymore. Warning us beforehand just puts a huge damper on the situation. Yeah, you avoided those 2 seconds of dissapointment, but you added way more seconds of me feeling kinda skeeved out. As a previous podcast contributor, I am very sad I missed the opportunity to put my 2 cents in on this one. Guys – DO NOT TELL HER. Its weird, and kind of a turn off. She’s gonna find out anyway, so there’s no need to set the bar so low. I assume that’s what you are trying to get out in front of – the bar being set too high – but it can have the opposite effect. Its like saying to someone right before, “Just so you know, this is going to be really dissapointing for you.” Also, maybe you think its small, but maybe we wouldn’t have noticed. Now you’ve put it in our head that you are exceptionally tiny, to the point where you found it necessary to issue a verbal disclaimer. I will admit, when the time comes when we do find out anyway, there’s about 2 seconds of “aw shucks.” But if you start doin a good job, we don’t care anymore. Warning us beforehand just puts a huge damper on the situation. Yeah, you avoided those 2 seconds of dissapointment, but you added way more seconds of me feeling kinda skeeved out.

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