What Everybody Ought to Know About The Role of Myspace and Facebook Early in a Relationship

Where would we be without our social networking sites?  It started out as a great way to reconnect with high school and college classmates, old friends from the neighborhood you grew up in, and maybe (though you’d never admit it) as a way to spy on your exes.  Read more

The Secret to Merging Households: What To Keep? What To Toss?

You’ve taken the big step and agreed to live with your girl – congrats tiger!  I’m a big fan of trying it before you buy it, so cohabitation will give you the chance to see if you can tolerate this person for the long haul.   (But hey, it also gives them the chance to see if they can tolerate YOU – so behave yourself!)  Of course, you probably have doubles of some things.   What are things you should keep and what should you toss? Read more

Guys: Reasons You Should Not Be Friends With Your Ex – In Haiku

We here at U Say, I Say are a multi-dimensional bunch.  Not only do we bring you advice from one sex to the other, not only do we give you cool unique ways to improve your current dating experiences, but every now and then we break from the norm and offer up some poetry. Read more

Why You Girls Love Married Men and What to Do About It

You know who you are: For some reason, you always find yourself falling in love with married men.  What the heck is wrong with you?  Can’t you find a man who is single?  Your friends are sick and tired of hearing you whine about how much you love this guy and he’s perfect except for that pesky wife of his.   What’s worse is when you’re dating the man – being that exotic “other woman” – and you fall hard.  He keeps saying he loves you and he’s going to leave his wife for you, but is he really? Read more

How To Handle A Hairy Man

This guy is so perfect.  He’s smart, he’s sweet, he has a career, he has his head firmly planted on his hairy shoulders.  Ew.  Okay, there’s the problem.  He’s your perfect man, but he’s… shall we say – furry? Read more

Help! Is My Girlfriend Going to Look Like Her Mother??

One of the tried and true bits of advice that floats around the dating scene is that if you want to know what your beloved will look like in 20-30 years, take a look at their parents.   You’ll get a good idea of how the people in that family age and vaguely what to expect when you marry them. Read more

5 Sure-Fire Ways to Handle a Bad Gift Giver

You know what sucks girls?  Getting bad gifts.  You know what sucks even more?  Being a guy and having no idea what to get for your girlfriend/wife/wifey for her birthday/xmas/chanukah.  Read more

Girls: 6 Fixes for Common Bedroom Problems

Some people will say sex is like pizza, it can only be so bad.   But really, these people have not had sh*&ty pizza.  Or sh*&ty sex.  Both are very real and very awful.  Read more

Girls: Why Paying on the 2nd Date Leads to Better Dating

You’ve had a great first date with this guy you met on Match.com / eHarmony / through your best friend / at work / on a subway / in a Subway (getting a five dollar footlong!) / wherever.  Either way, you’ve set up a second date because you really dig this guy and you want to see if it has the potential to go anywhere. Read more

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