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		<title>Will Lamar Odom and Khloe Kardashian Last at least Two Years?</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 27 Oct 2009 19:14:07 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Adam R-Z</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Lamar Odom and Khloe Kardashian have been dating for a little less than two months.  Surprising both family and friends, they have decided to wed despite their short time together.  This has led many to wonder their true intentions and sets the scene for another U Say, I Say debate.  The question:  Will Lamar Odom and Khloe Kardashians marriage last at least two years?]]></description>
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<p>Lamar Odom and Khloe Kardashian have been dating for a little less than two months.  Surprising both family and friends, they have decided to wed despite their short time together.  This has led many to wonder their true intentions and sets the scene for another U Say, I Say debate.</p>
<p>The question:  <strong>Will Lamar Odom and Khloe Kardashians marriage last at least two years?</strong></p>
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		<title>DEBATE: When You&#8217;re Breaking Up With Someone Should You Tell Them You Cheated?</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 18 Aug 2009 20:00:42 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Adam R-Z</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Liz cheated on Steve but he doesn't know... yet.  They are about to break up because Liz has been distant ever since she cheated.  Should she tell him or just keep it to herself?  Join the debate!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-683" style="margin: 5px;" title="breaking-up-cheater" src="http://usayisay.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/08/breaking-up-cheater-300x299.jpg" alt="Liz cheated.  Should she tell Steve?" width="300" height="299" />Steve and Liz dated for almost a year before their relationship started to hit the skids.  Over the past month, Liz has become increasingly distant and their arguments went from minor tiffs to major yelling matches.</p>
<p>Liz believes that its time for them to break up and go their separate ways.  However, she is debating if she should bring up the fact that she cheated on Steve about a month ago.  She thinks it could help explain why they have been fighting so much, but is unsure if it&#8217;s too much information at this point.</p>
<p><strong>Should Liz tell Steve that she cheated or just keep it to her self?</strong></p>
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		<title>PODCAST: Panel Discusses Dating in the Workplace</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 09 Aug 2009 20:00:28 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Adam R-Z</dc:creator>
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For this U Say, I Say podcast we posed a familiar problem to our panelists:  Should a person date in the workplace? Our panelist gave some great, humorous insights that will help you decide on whether to make a move on that guy or girl in the next cubicle (or office if you roll large [...]]]></description>
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<p>For this U Say, I Say podcast we posed a familiar problem to our panelists:  <strong>Should a person date in the workplace?</strong> Our panelist gave some great, humorous insights that will help you decide on whether to make a move on that guy or girl in the next cubicle (or office if you roll large like that).<span id="more-618"></span></p>
<p>Participants for this podcast were (relationship status as of recording time):</p>
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<li>Maxwell, a 28 year old software designer from Miami, currently<a href="http://usayisay.com/tag/just-hangin-out"> just hangin&#8217; out </a>with someone</li>
<li>Panama, a 29 year old business consultant, <a href="http://usayisay.com/tag/just-hangin-out">single</a></li>
<li>Carla, a 30 year old event planner, in the <a href="http://usayisay.com/tag/bfgf">bf/gf stage<br />
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<li>Misty, a 26 year old financial analyst, currently <a href="http://usayisay.com/tag/just-hangin-out">just hangin&#8217; out </a>with someone</li>
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		<title>PODCAST: What Role Does Text Messaging Play in Dating?</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 06 Jul 2009 09:52:45 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Adam R-Z</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[In this U Say, I Say podcast we explore the role of texting in relationships.  Do men and women view texting differently?  Does it&#8217;s role change from when you&#8217;re single to when you&#8217;re in a relationship?  Is the &#8220;booty blast&#8221; an effective means of getting some lovin for the night?  Our panel discusses!
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-479" style="margin: 5px;" title="girl-texting" src="http://usayisay.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/07/girl-texting-225x300.jpg" alt="girl-texting" width="162" height="216" />In this U Say, I Say podcast we explore the role of texting in relationships.  Do men and women view texting differently?  Does it&#8217;s role change from when you&#8217;re single to when you&#8217;re in a relationship?  Is the &#8220;booty blast&#8221; an effective means of getting some lovin for the night?  Our panel discusses!<span id="more-471"></span></p>
<p>On this panel we are joined by:</p>
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		<title>DEBATE: Should Taking Someone&#8217;s Last Name Be a Deal Breaker?</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 06 Jul 2009 04:00:35 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Adam and Sital</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Dan, a Boston-born patent attorney in his late 20&#8217;s and Susan, a fashion designer in her mid-30&#8217;s who owns her own company, have decided to get married after a passionate 6 months of dating. When they subject of Susan taking Dan&#8217;s last name came up, Dan insisted on it.  Susan refused, but Dan has stated [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><span style="font-family: Tahoma;"><img class="alignright size-medium wp-image-415" style="margin: 5px;" title="last-name-tag" src="http://usayisay.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/07/last-name-tag-300x197.gif" alt="last-name-tag" width="240" height="158" />Dan, a Boston-born patent attorney in his late 20&#8217;s and Susan, a fashion designer in her mid-30&#8217;s who owns her own company, have decided to get married after a passionate 6 months of dating. When they subject of Susan taking Dan&#8217;s last name came up, Dan insisted on it.  <span id="more-261"></span>Susan refused, but Dan has stated that it is something really important to him and it has become a deal breaker in the relationship. </span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: Tahoma;">Should Susan take his last name to save the relationship?</span></p>
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