A Review of a Kick-Ass Compatibility Test
July 21, 2009 by Adam R-Z
Filed under Featured, Guys, Explained

When I first saw the International Relationship Institutes compatibility test, my first thought was “Why do I need this?”
You see I have been in a great relationship for the past two years and it seems to me we are very compatible. We enjoying sports (both playing and watching), both work in technology - even both love jalapenos! How much more compatible can you be? Why would I need some “test” to tell me if we’re good for each other? Read more
Why It’s Ok to Lie to the Person You’re Dating
July 14, 2009 by Rachel W.
Filed under Girls, Explained
STOP! WAIT! I know what you’re expecting here: one of those dull treatises on the best response to the immortal question “does my ass look big in this?”
Well don’t worry, because this article is NOT going to go there. That would be tired, lame and clichéd. No, this is going to an exciting treatise on the best response to the immortal question “so what do you think of my friends?” Read more
PODCAST: What Role Does Text Messaging Play in Dating?
In this U Say, I Say podcast we explore the role of texting in relationships. Do men and women view texting differently? Does it’s role change from when you’re single to when you’re in a relationship? Is the “booty blast” an effective means of getting some lovin for the night? Our panel discusses! Read more
DEBATE: Should Taking Someone’s Last Name Be a Deal Breaker?
July 5, 2009 by Adam and Sital
Filed under Debates, Featured
Dan, a Boston-born patent attorney in his late 20’s and Susan, a fashion designer in her mid-30’s who owns her own company, have decided to get married after a passionate 6 months of dating. When they subject of Susan taking Dan’s last name came up, Dan insisted on it. Join the debate!
The Secret to Merging Households: What To Keep? What To Toss?
July 5, 2009 by Rachel W.
Filed under Girls, Explained

You’ve taken the big step and agreed to live with your girl – congrats tiger! I’m a big fan of trying it before you buy it, so cohabitation will give you the chance to see if you can tolerate this person for the long haul. (But hey, it also gives them the chance to see if they can tolerate YOU – so behave yourself!) Of course, you probably have doubles of some things. What are things you should keep and what should you toss? Read more
What Girls Should Know About Long- and Short- Distance Relationships
July 5, 2009 by David M.
Filed under Guys, Explained

Long distance relationships can be rough. You’re totally into this person, but they live miles and miles away so you barely see each other. There’s a limit to how comforting it is to talk on the phone or via Skype or to type *hugs* in an IM. Read more
Why You Girls Love Married Men and What to Do About It
July 5, 2009 by David M.
Filed under Guys, Explained
You know who you are: For some reason, you always find yourself falling in love with married men. What the heck is wrong with you? Can’t you find a man who is single? Your friends are sick and tired of hearing you whine about how much you love this guy and he’s perfect except for that pesky wife of his. What’s worse is when you’re dating the man – being that exotic “other woman” – and you fall hard. He keeps saying he loves you and he’s going to leave his wife for you, but is he really? Read more
20 Fun Ways of Conquering Boredom in Your Relationship
June 18, 2009 by Rachel W.
Filed under Better Dating
You’re bored. Bored, bored, bored. There’s just something not quite exciting about your relationship anymore. Well, have we here at U Say I Say have got the cure for you! Read more
Protected: 10 Out-of-the-Ordinary San Diego Date Ideas, continued
June 16, 2009 by Adam and Sital
Filed under Better Dating
5 Sure-Fire Ways to Handle a Bad Gift Giver
June 12, 2009 by David M.
Filed under Guys, Explained
You know what sucks girls? Getting bad gifts. You know what sucks even more? Being a guy and having no idea what to get for your girlfriend/wife/wifey for her birthday/xmas/chanukah. Read more



