Comments on: The Three Best Break up Excuses for Guys http://usayisay.com/the-three-best-break-up-excuses-for-guys Dating and Relationship Advice from both Guys and Girls Wed, 14 Jul 2010 06:04:23 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.1 hourly 1 By: Tobias http://usayisay.com/the-three-best-break-up-excuses-for-guys/comment-page-1#comment-120 Tobias Mon, 26 Oct 2009 02:08:16 +0000 http://usayisay.com/?p=637#comment-120 First off: Bonus points for using the term d-bag in a sentance. Well done! Second: I know that when talking about relationships, people can tend to be serious (especially for those who’s biological clock is ticking). But sometimes we need to relax and have some fun with the subject don’t we? I would hope that most of my readers have a chuckle with my articles while also finding something to take away. In this case the guys out there get a good chuckle about some of this advice (the music career one lets say) and something to think about (shutting the door so there is no hope after the breakup) Finally: To your last point, sometimes you DO need to bust out a crazy excuse! <a href="http://usayisay.com/debate-did-steve-mcnair-deserve-to-be-shot" rel="nofollow">Don’t you think our good buddy Steve McNair</a> wishes he just would have just busted out the gay excuse right about now? (I’m going to hell for that comment aren’t I First off: Bonus points for using the term d-bag in a sentance. Well done!
Second: I know that when talking about relationships, people can tend to be serious (especially for those who’s biological clock is ticking). But sometimes we need to relax and have some fun with the subject don’t we?
I would hope that most of my readers have a chuckle with my articles while also finding something to take away. In this case the guys out there get a good chuckle about some of this advice (the music career one lets say) and something to think about (shutting the door so there is no hope after the breakup)

Finally: To your last point, sometimes you DO need to bust out a crazy excuse!
Don’t you think our good buddy Steve McNair
wishes he just would have just busted out the gay excuse right about now? (I’m going to hell for that comment aren’t I

]]> By: Misty http://usayisay.com/the-three-best-break-up-excuses-for-guys/comment-page-1#comment-115 Misty Thu, 22 Oct 2009 20:23:35 +0000 http://usayisay.com/?p=637#comment-115 I'm hoping this article is a joke. Is it a joke? If not, I disagree with every single thing on this page, except b) don’t keep any kind of door open that could give the other person hope that you might get back together. And nothing in this article suggests a good way to do that. Any girl with half a brain is going to know that any of those three "classics" are BS. And other than the gay one, they both leave the door wide open, because you haven't had the cajones to just come out and say to her "I'm just not that into you." To be nice about it, you can emphasize what a great person we are, you just don't feel the spark. And there's no way to argue with that. If you throw us some crappy excuse, we will rack our brains trying to figure out what went wrong. And if you don't tell us that you're just not feelin it, we don't care if you are moving or want to be a rock star, netiher of those states firmly that there's no place in those scenarios for us to fit in. Guys, I know its hard. I personally know of more than one guy who stayed in a relationship he didn't want to be in because he was afraid to hurt the girls feelings by breaking up with her. Well, first off, its gonna hurt a lot more if we can't figure out why you are being a d-bag all the time. And secondly, sorry if its tough, but that's life. If you are the kind of person who when life throws you a tough situation, you manipulate and lie your way out of it, then go ahead, tell her you're gay. But if you're a stand up dude, just take a deep breath and explain to her nicely and respectfully that you're just not that into her. Unless she's a crazy b*tch, then you can do whatever you want! I’m hoping this article is a joke. Is it a joke? If not, I disagree with every single thing on this page, except b) don’t keep any kind of door open that could give the other person hope that you might get back together. And nothing in this article suggests a good way to do that. Any girl with half a brain is going to know that any of those three “classics” are BS. And other than the gay one, they both leave the door wide open, because you haven’t had the cajones to just come out and say to her “I’m just not that into you.” To be nice about it, you can emphasize what a great person we are, you just don’t feel the spark. And there’s no way to argue with that. If you throw us some crappy excuse, we will rack our brains trying to figure out what went wrong. And if you don’t tell us that you’re just not feelin it, we don’t care if you are moving or want to be a rock star, netiher of those states firmly that there’s no place in those scenarios for us to fit in. Guys, I know its hard. I personally know of more than one guy who stayed in a relationship he didn’t want to be in because he was afraid to hurt the girls feelings by breaking up with her. Well, first off, its gonna hurt a lot more if we can’t figure out why you are being a d-bag all the time. And secondly, sorry if its tough, but that’s life. If you are the kind of person who when life throws you a tough situation, you manipulate and lie your way out of it, then go ahead, tell her you’re gay. But if you’re a stand up dude, just take a deep breath and explain to her nicely and respectfully that you’re just not that into her. Unless she’s a crazy b*tch, then you can do whatever you want!

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